Alright my Lovelies listen up………I’m hearing those words again…”I can’t wear that I hate my upper arms” or my belly or my legs or my ass……
I get it, don’t get me wrong I do understand….GET OVER IT……I’m not the same body as I was long ago, there are scars, there is a little extra here and there….we all have something about ourselves we are unhappy with…..
It comes down to finding not only what works for your body but confidence as well, yes my arm moves a little more than I would like it to when I wave but that is not going to stop me from wearing a sleeveless blouse or dress, why, because if I like it and I am comfortable I am going to wear it…..WHY? When you are comfortable in the correct fit you feel good, when you feel good it shows….
For example, lets say Kim Kardashian and Adele are at the same party, Ms Kim is wearing something right off the runway, Ms Adele is wearing something classic and well tailored to her body.
Ms Kim is tugging, pulling and straightening her attire throughout the entire event, Ms Adele is enjoying that glass of wine, chit chat, completely comfortable and CONFIDENT in her own skin…
I promise you your husband/boyfriend or lover are not seeing the extra pounds, the scars or whatever you wish you could change about yourself.
So I ask you, when you turn down that dress you love just because you hate your upper arms WHO ARE YOU TRYING TO IMPRESS when you leave the house……
Lovelies, life is short, if you love it, if it works on your body wear it, hold your head high, walk down the street comfortable, feeling great about yourself and CONFIDENT!
And that my Lovelies is my menopausal rant for the day.
